Showing posts with label nicole. Show all posts
Showing posts with label nicole. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Wave Goodbye!

There’s this thing about waving bye bye to your child.

It starts when the child can barely speak. I’m not sure why this is one of the very first milestones we expect of our kids. Mind you, it’s not just “WAVE at mummy!” it’s a “Wave BYE BYE!” Poor kid, after achieving this, we actually go off! (maybe to work, maybe to run an errand.. but definitely not hang around!)

Now that my kids are up and about and going to school, we hardly get a wave. Thank God I still get to kiss them goodbye, but to get a wave? Here’s what I got today!

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I realised when the wave is from a further distance, the enthusiasm increases. e.g. waving from a moving vehicle, or waving beyond a glass panel or door. I hate goodbyes, and I think kids too!

Do your kids still wave goodbye? Or do you?

 

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Kids’ Goals and Dreams

We did an activity with the kids recently—Goal Setting for the new year. They wrote or drew their goals and dreams on a simple paper lantern, and after that, we let it go into the wind. (In the end, we just lit up the lantern and snuff out the candle…the wind was too strong!)

Drawing on LanternYou can see, travelling is a big thing on their agenda!

Now, look at what Nicole wrote! I’m not sure why the sudden emphasis on safe and sound!!

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And the finale… setting up the lantern!

Setting up the lantern

What are the goals and dreams that your kids have for 2013?

 

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Tuesday, January 15, 2013

When I grow up …

At the start of the year, I always ask my kids, “What do you wanna be when you grow up?”

Each year, the list has new additions, and sometimes, old dreams as tossed aside. This is the first start of the year this blog is going through, so here’s 2013’s WHAT I WANNA BE WHEN I GROW UP (with reasons stated in italics)

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Nicole, 8 year old

  • Nurse – To help others and I want to take temperature for the patients
  • Teacher – I can teach, use the markers, and choose what books to read
  • Hip-hop Dancer – Not ballet, so boring
  • Scientist – I want to do experiments

Nathan, 6 year old

  • Magician – I get to do magic tricks, and people have to pay me to do, and I get to travel and perform
  • Policeman – I want to catch all the bad guys

Nadine, 5 year old

  • Ballerina – I want to wear pink and purple

So in 2013, we are getting friends with occupations to speak to them so they can find out more. And in cases like magician, scientist and hip hop dancer, perhaps we will get the introduction kit/class for them.

What do your school going kids wanna be when they grow up?

 

 

 

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Candlelight Service: How Great Thou Art

Christmas. Time to love & give. Time to celebrate the birth of Christ. Time to be the light of the world.

We had our annual Candlelight Service in church last weekend. It was beautiful as we also celebrated God’s goodness, faithfulness and grace.

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Candlelight CHC children

Candlelight CHC 2012

Strangely the song I’m reminded of this season ain’t a Christmas carol, but an old hymn:

O Lord my God

When I in awesome wonder

Consider all the worlds Thy hands hath made

I see the stars, I hear the roaring thunder

Thy power throughout

The universe displayed

Then sings my soul

My Saviour, God, to Thee

How Great Thou Art, How Great Thou Art

Thought I’ll leave you with Sandi Patty’s rendition of this hymn. Have a Blessed Christmas this season!

 

Grew up listening to her!
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Friday, December 14, 2012

Happy Kids, Happy Parents

Ice cream. It appeals more on a rainy day. It appeals even more after a full and satisfying meal.

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We were at Bugis+ (previously known as Illuma) and GELATERIA ITALIA was shouting as us. And, it wasn’t just us who heard the voice! hahaha… So we had a dose (three doses to be exact) of Gelato.

I like to think that calories in Snickers-flavoured Gelato, Deep Chocolate-flavoured Gelato and Hazelnut Cream-flavoured Gelato burns faster than regular plain ones. The deception goes deeper as I figured if I type out every flavour, the calories will all burn off! Ohhh and if we call it gelato, isn’t it healthier?

End result? Happy kids, happy parents!

Happy Ice cream kids

 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Anyone with kids who are careless, lazy & not paying attention?

When I was a kid, I remember when test papers were returned to us, I would get scolded for being “careless” and “lazy”. As my mum looked at the paper, it’s always a case of “why so forgetful?” “why didn’t you read the question carefully?” “did you pay attention?”. I would check with some of my friends, and realised our parents said the same things!

Now I’m a parent. Guess what? These same words are used! hahaha…

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Well, recently I learnt something that totally changed my mind! A child/adult learns through various cognitive skills. These include Comprehension, Memory, Logic, Processing etc. Let me give you an example:

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Which picture A-B-C-D best match the top picture?

The skills you use to pick out Picture D has nothing to do with being careless, or being lazy to check or not paying attention. Rather, the cognitive skill used is Visual Discrimination. With this skill, you are able to observe keenly and have attention to details. This is the skill we use when we copy the figures for problem sums in Math papers or transferring the answer for comprehension questions.

Nicole and Nathan did this question. She got the answer wrong despite looking keenly at the pictures. Nathan got the answer in a few seconds. Does this mean Nicole is more careless or less conscientious in her work? No No No! It showed that her Visual Discrimination skill is undeveloped, and Nathan is naturally more inept for this.

What a revelation! It’s not about her study attitude. And looking at this, you may think it’s about those IQ tests. It’s not about IQ. It’s about exposure to a certain skill and developing that skill. So Nicole has to learn how to observe before she can copy that right phrase from the comprehension passage in her test papers. Her super super careless mistakes when doing math was not about her care-less attitude! She just never learnt how to observe well!

So where did we learn this? We were at Thinkersbox, a cognitive skills learning centre. The kids received a short assessment of three basic skills while I went through a brief introductory session on what the centre does. Based on the results, a customised programme will be planned for each kid to hone their strengths & weaknesses.

Visual Discrimination Skill

The programme is 10 month long, and during that period, NO CONTENT will be taught. The trainers will only focus on learning skills. There are 27 skills identified and at the start of the programme, the child will go through a more detailed assessment for these skills. At the end of the programme, another assessment will be done. And from Thinkersbox research and experience in several primary schools over the past few years, there is significant improvement to each child’s learning ability.

Common Scenarios we parents face:

  • Child cannot follow the teacher’s instructions despite listening attentively
  • Child cannot remember simple information e.g. what he had for lunch, when is spelling test
  • Child reads a passage but reads it wrong—names mixed up, info jumbled
  • Doing a math sum but copied the number wrongly in the working sheet

These are some signs of undeveloped cognitive skills! It’s not necessarily a learning disability, a bad attitude! Isn’t that good news?

Important question: How much does it cost? The 10-month programme costs $2,000. This is for a weekly 2 hour session, which would work out to $25 per hour. That’s not too bad, if you compare with the various enrichment courses and tuition schools.

Isn’t that great? It was comforting to know that content plays the least important role in our exam-crazed society. Such life-long learning skills make a tremendous difference to that much dreaded PSLE!

If your child is between 5-12year old, click here for more information

I really would recommend you signing up for a complimentary 3 Learning Skills assessment. It’s FREE!

Find out if the results tally with what you’ve been nagging complaining saying about your child. SmileSmile

SPECIALLY for Mumseword readers: if you sign up before December 2012 for the customised programme, you get $100 off the total price. Just mention Mumseword when you sign up to get your discount!

Thinkersbox is located at 420 North Bridge Road, North Bridge Centre #03-02/03, Singapore 188727. (Directly opposite the National Library)

 

DISCLAIMER: Mumseword was invited to Thinkersbox Development Centre, but all opinions are 100% my own.

 

 

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Guest Post at The Gingerbread Mum

Today, we are guests at The Gingerbread Mum, and I had the opportunity to think about the year 2012 and how thankful I am for what has happened. Adora is doing a daily series showcasing what different parents are thankful for in 2012.

Drop by to read about my year here.

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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

My Child & Me Day 2012

Today is the day Nicole has been waiting for! Our bi-annual special day together.

When she started school this year, I told her at every semester break, Mummy will bring her out for one day, and she gets to plan the day, choose her meal, do whatever she likes! This was her plan for today:

  • Cut hair
  • Eat Pasta especially lasagne
  • Do Nails
  • Do Chinese Tuition homework (???)

Don’t ask me about the last point. I was very amazed too! Anyhow, here’s our day!

MCMD On our way

MCMD Hair cut for kid

MCMD Manicure for kids

MCMD Lasagne

MCMD Sleeping

Yup. The day ended with her sleeping curled up on my lap as we made our way home. As the ad goes:

Haircut: $10

Manicure: $7

Lasagne: $15

Child’s smile and big hug: Priceless

This holiday, plan a day out with one child. Let your child decide on what he/she wants to do, eat and where to go. Share with us as we celebrate My Child & Me Day! Trust me, it is going to be priceless.

Here’s how to do it:

  • Simply copy the URL to your post and follow the directions in the linky below.
  • Feel free to grab the “My Child & Me Day” button above and use it in your post.
  • Do visit at least 2-3 other posts in the linky and leave them a comment. That’s it!
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Monday, December 3, 2012

Digital Christmas Card

Nicole can do programming! woahhhh! I can’t believe it! From our gene pool of non-tech, non-IT, purely Arts cells, she did a digital Christmas card! Before I show you the final product, here’s where she had her classes:

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The class is not big and they students got to work in pairs. This helped as they had their peers (strangers in Nicole’s case) to help them through the project. The instructors were on hand to assist and give advice. In fact, from the card, you can see that the instructors truly just gave technical advice and clearly did not give any creative inputs!

Here’s the final product! It’ll go to Nicole’s cousin who is currently overseas. She’s excited to start on another project. She wants to say hello to her preschool friends, her church mates on weekdays, and her school mates on weekends. Amazing, ya? I can’t believe my daughter is so techie! I’m thoroughly impressed! (and she loves it too!) Click on the picture below to see her Digital Card!

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Saturday Kids are conducting more Digital Christmas Card Workshops this holiday season. You can get more information here. Each workshop consists of 2 daily sessions of 3 hours. They have workshops catered to 7-9 year olds and 10-12 year olds. Go for it and be amazed!

DISCLAIMER: Mumseword was invited to the Digital Christmas Card workshop, but all opinions are 100% my own, final product is 100% done by Nicole!

 

 

Monday, November 26, 2012

Playmobil Bazaar in Sentosa

Are you a Playmobil fan? Our kids are! (cos Daddy is a big fan, and he actually reluctantly lovingly passed his decades old Playmobil figurines to Nathan… more about that another time!)

This December holidays, Sentosa has set-up a Playmobil Bazaar at Palawan Beach! From now till 30 Dec, it’s Playmobil galore in this corner of the island! There’s life-size Playmobil knights, princesses, pirates around, together with little stores for craft work, Playmobil display sets and the most fun—Playmobil Fun Pit.

Playmobil Pirates Lifesize

Playmobil Fireman Lifesize

Playmobil Princess Lifesize

Playmobil Larger than life

Playmobil Pirate Playset

Playmobil Knights Playset

Playmobil School Playset

Playmobil Games

Playmobil Storytelling

Playmobil Sleigh

My verdict? The area is a little small, however the lifesize models and the playsets are a great introduction to Playmobil. Having it so near the Port of Lost Wonder (POLW) helps add to the ever Popular Pirates theme!

The Bazaar is free and the venue is great—just at the entrance of POLW! Enjoy!!

DISCLAIMER: Mumseword was invited to the Playmobil Bazaar, but all opinions are 100% my own, kids expressions are 100% as genuine as they get!

 

 

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Love Talk with Kids

Have I told you lately that I love you?

Every night, part of my goodnight ritual is to tell the kids “I Love You” The usual response is “I Love You mummy” or “I Love You too mummy”.

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Last week, I asked them why? Why do you love Mummy? haha I don’t expect some philosophical answer or a long list of what I did right. It was just one of those, “I just wanna know” questions. Smile 

Here’s their response: (all asked separately!)

Nicole, 7yo – I love you because you buy food for us, and you bring me out

Nathan, 5yo – I don’t know. I love you. Don’t ask me. I don’t know.

Nadine, 4yo – I love you because mumble mumble (she mumbled and I couldn’t hear her answer!)

My conclusion? Girls do talk more. They think more. They can answer questions even if they mumble! For boys, just be happy they said I love you.

 

What do your kids say when you ask the ‘Why Do You Love Mummy’ question?

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Friday, November 16, 2012

Guest Post at Dominique’s Desk

Today, we are guests at Dominique’s Desk, and I had the opportunity to share my experience as a Primary 1 parent! Dominique is doing up a series on Preparing for Primary One, and you can read about the three biggest lessons that I learnt taught to Nicole.

Drop by to read what I learnt here

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Click on the button below to read more about Preparing for Primary One

Primary 1 series.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday Kids–Holiday Workshop (Interactive Christmas Cards)

The holidays are here! And we were invited to enrol Nicole for a short holiday workshop on computer programming! haha! Yes, a 7 year old learning some basics to computer programming by creating an Interactive Christmas Card.

Honestly, I can’t imagine my Nicole coming up with a digital card that moves and has music! (cos mummy has zero computing skills!) So we were quite keen to let her go for the course. They will work in pairs and express their ideas through their creative artwork/music.

The course is by Saturday Kids, a school that aims to teach children digital literacy. For this Holiday Workshop, the kids will use a programme called SCRATCH, designed by MIT Media Lab.

The details are below:

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SPECIAL DISCOUNT FOR YOU!

And here’s a good news for Mum’s the word readers! There’s a special 30% discount for you if you sign up using this SPECIAL DISCOUNT LINK. The discount is available from 18 Nov (Sun) to 20 Nov (Tues).

I can’t wait to see her interactive card! (I feel like telling her what my favourite carol is, so she can put that in the card!)

 

Friday, November 2, 2012

Children. Love. Reading.

I love reading. Since young, when the forms ask for my hobbies, reading would be word I’ll put in. During recess, I’m happy to go to a quiet corner to read. I’m definitely not one of those playing catching in the field, or worse, playing basketball on the courts. Give me a book any day, and I’ll be happy.

Naturally, one of my greatest desires is for ALL my kids to love reading! Problem is, their genes also include a non-reader. You see, Daddy doesn’t read. He thinks it’s a big joke when he found out how I spent my recesses. He’s shocked that I prefer reading to watching that violent war movie on TV. He can’t believe that one simple story has to be told in three thick books. (To be fair, he does read non-fiction, and quite a bit of it too—Newspapers, News Magazines, Christian Books/Magazines. But how can one be called a reader if you don’t read fiction????)

So I do my part. I read to the kids daily regularly. Use every possible voice and pitch I have to be old witches, crying rabbits, hungry giants etc. Daddy reads to them too. It’s fun, but he uses his non-fiction/current affairs reading voice to them. (I don’t think there are talking squirrels and rhyming words in that department)

Imagine my smile when a friend sent me pictures of how enthusiastic my kids were when they stepped in a book fair recently. She said in the end, there were three baskets full. woooohooooo! Looks like my kids love reading too!!! yeah!!!

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Yup, I pray that they continue to love reading. And if they love reading Mandarin too, it would be a miracle!

Do your children love reading?